Tips on Resolving Conflicts by : Eaindar

Who in this world never had conflicts in their life-time? Every one of us has conflicts with our love ones once in a while. Just because of these conflicts, will we ignore all the good times that we had with our love ones? The answer is “NO”.

Followings are some tips on resolving conflicts:-

Don’t ignore the problem

Once the issue arises, solve it at once even if it is at mid-night. Don’t let it stay unresolved for a prolonged period. In that way, all the parties involved in that issue can have a good time after solving the problem.

Don’t blame the other person

Find out the root of problem first. Settle the specific issues and do not attack the other person. Avoid blaming on the other person. Don’t drag up past issues.

Don’t erupt with emotions

Solve the problem with good communication techniques. Try to understand the other person’s perspective before trying to explain your point of view.

Don’t complain to others about your problem

When there is a problem between you and your partner, do not go around and tell this problem to other people. It is best that you and your partner solve the problem by yourselves. Outsiders can never understand the problem between you and your partner. Instead, they will start to side with the person closest to them and add fuel to fire.

The most important thing about conflicts is not how to avoid them, but how to manage them with cool heart.

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